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For adult children & aging parents · The Aging Parents Plan

The plan for aging parents, while planning is still possible.

Medicare doesn’t cover long-term care. ALTCS has a five-year lookback. Capacity declines without warning. The Aging Parents Plan handles all three — while everyone involved can still sign their own documents.

Two tiers $1,499 Essentials · $1,999 Complete
Per Estate, not per person
§ 01 · The Two Doors

Two kinds of people begin this plan.

Most avatar packages have one client. The Aging Parents Plan has two, and the buyer is often not the subject. The work is the same either way.

— Door I

The adult child — planning for a parent.

Roughly two-thirds of the plans we write.

Mom is in her late seventies. Dad passed three years ago and the planning he had was incomplete. She is still sharp, still in her home, but the small signs are starting: the forgotten appointment, the second fall in the garage, the conversation about moving in with you that keeps almost happening.

You are the adult child trying to get ahead of it. You are the buyer; she is the signer. The package is built for that configuration: discovery with you, then sessions with her, documents drafted in her name, signed by her, organized for the family.

— Door II

The aging parent — planning for themselves.

Roughly one-third of the plans we write.

You are in your sixties, seventies, or eighties. Maybe recently widowed. Maybe recently retired. Maybe a friend’s situation made you look at your own paperwork and realize how thin it is.

You are the buyer and the subject. You sign your own documents, you set your own care preferences, you have the family meeting on your own terms. This is the configuration where the work moves fastest, because the person making the decisions is the person in the room.

Either door leads to the same package. The conversation just starts in a different place.
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§ 02 · The Medicare gap

What Medicare does not cover.

Most families learn this during a crisis. The Aging Parents Plan exists to learn it now, when there are still options.

Medicare covers up to one hundred days of skilled nursing after a qualifying hospital stay. After that, Medicare pays nothing for long-term care.

The options are: pay privately, qualify for Arizona’s Medicaid program (ALTCS), or have family provide the care. Each of those paths has rules. Each one rewards planning that started years before the care was needed.

Here is the math families do not see coming.

— The cost
$8K–$12K/mo
Arizona memory care, current market. Skilled nursing runs $6,000–$9,000. Assisted living runs $4,000–$6,000. All paid privately unless ALTCS qualifies.
— The lookback
5 years
ALTCS reviews five years of financial history before approving. Asset transfers in that window can disqualify a parent from coverage. Family payments — even small ones — can be treated as gifts.
— The window
60–90 days
ALTCS qualification timeline with proper pre-planning. Without it: six to twelve months, frequent denials, retroactive spend-downs, family financial strain. Pre-planning is the difference.
§ 03 · How the plan works

Three pillars, working together.

Most aging-parent planning addresses only one piece — usually the will. The Aging Parents Plan is built around three pillars that have to work together to actually protect a family.

— Pillar I.

Documented authority.

When capacity declines, someone has to make decisions on your parent’s behalf. Without documented authority, that person is appointed by a court.

The plan names them in advance, in writing, with Arizona-specific Pre-Need designations. Healthcare decisions, financial decisions, daily life decisions — each gets a designated person with legal authority to act.

— Pillar II.

ALTCS pre-planning.

The most expensive planning mistake families make is waiting until ALTCS is needed to think about ALTCS. By then, the five-year lookback is already in motion.

The plan includes a written ALTCS pre-planning consultation: asset review against eligibility limits, lookback exposure analysis, Personal Care Agreement documentation, spend-down strategy recommendations. Not legal advice — documentation and education that positions the family for a qualifying application when one is needed.

— Pillar III.

Family communication.

The most common reason elder-care plans fail isn’t the documents. It’s the family.

Siblings disagree about preferences. Someone feels owed more. Someone feels resentful for doing more. The plan includes a Family Communication Plan and Caregiver Family Meeting Guide — structured tools for the conversations that prevent disputes before they happen.

§ 04 · The Two Tiers

Essentials or Complete.

Both packages share the same elder-care core. The difference is what handles probate avoidance. The right tier is identified during the consultation, not by the buyer.

— Tier I

Aging Parents Plan: Essentials.

For simpler estates — a Beneficiary Deed handles the home.
$1,499
flat · single parent or couple
  • Pre-Need Guardian Designation
  • Pre-Need Conservator Designation
  • Personal Care Agreement
  • Advance Healthcare Directive
  • Financial Power of Attorney
  • ALTCS Pre-Planning Consultation & Pre-Screen
  • Family Communication Plan & Meeting Guide
  • Care Preferences & Final Wishes documents
  • Asset Inventory & Digital Asset Authorization
  • Last Will & Testament (standalone)
  • Arizona Beneficiary Deed for the home (recorded)
— Best for Aging parents with a home and modest other assets. ALTCS-imminent cases where trust funding optics could complicate eligibility. Late-life situations where trust complexity is not warranted.
— Tier II

Aging Parents Plan: Complete.

For complex estates — a full trust handles everything.
$1,999
flat · single parent or couple
  • Revocable Living Trust
  • Pour-Over Will (replaces standalone Will)
  • Schedule of Assets & Asset Assignment
  • Certificate of Trust & Certificate of Incumbency
  • Trust Power of Attorney
  • Real estate retitling for one property
  • EIN creation if trust needs one
  • Bank trust account paperwork
  • First-year trust review
  • All countable assets pass through the trust, not just the home.
  • Additional properties: +$199 each
— Best for Multiple properties, blended families, significant investments, business interests, or families wanting comprehensive probate avoidance for the entire estate — not just the home.
About forty to fifty percent of clients legitimately need only Essentials. The right tier is the one that fits the situation, not the one with the higher price.
§ 05 · What you actually receive

The full elder-care package.

Four groups of work. The first three are identical between Essentials and Complete. The fourth is where the tiers diverge.

— Group I

Capacity and authority.

The documents that put someone in charge when your parent can’t be.

  • Pre-Need Guardian Designation. Under Arizona statute. Names a person to serve as personal guardian if your parent becomes incapacitated. Reduces risk of contested guardianship.
  • Pre-Need Conservator Designation. Similar but for financial and asset management. Different role from guardian; often a different person.
  • Advance Healthcare Directive. Living Will plus Healthcare Power of Attorney combined. End-of-life and incapacity medical decisions in one document.
  • Financial Power of Attorney. Broader authority for all financial matters — not just trust-specific. Active during any period of incapacity.
  • Care Preferences. Broader treatment philosophy beyond medical-only directives. The values and preferences that guide care decisions.
— Group II

ALTCS pre-planning.

The documentation that positions the family for Medicaid qualification when it is needed.

  • ALTCS Pre-Planning Consultation. A documented assessment of your parent’s current ALTCS exposure. Asset inventory against limits, income against limits, 5-year lookback risk identification, spousal protection analysis if married.
  • ALTCS Eligibility Pre-Screen. A checklist tool that surfaces immediate eligibility issues. Identifies which strategies are worth pursuing and which require attorney coordination.
  • Personal Care Agreement. The most important document in the package for families where an adult child is providing care. Without it, family payments can be characterized as gifts during the lookback. With it, the payments are documented compensation.
  • Long-Term Care Cost Worksheet. Calculates likely care funding need based on current Arizona market rates. Memory care, skilled nursing, assisted living scenarios.
— Group III

Family communication.

Structured tools for the conversations that prevent disputes.

  • Family Communication Plan. A framework for communicating the plan to siblings, in-laws, and other involved family. Pre-empts the “why wasn’t I told” conflict.
  • Caregiver Family Meeting Guide. Facilitation guide for the meeting where decisions about care, money, and roles get made openly. Agenda, talking points, conflict-resolution language.
  • AZ Care Resource Guide. Regional directory: ALTCS offices, geriatric care managers, care navigation services, common care facilities by area.
  • Final Wishes documents. Letter of Last Instructions, Final Disposition, Final Tribute. Captures the practical and the personal — what to do, and what to say.
— Group IV

Probate avoidance — varies by tier.

Where Essentials and Complete differ. Both prevent probate; they use different tools.

  • Essentials — the Beneficiary Deed. Recorded with the county. Transfers the home directly to named beneficiaries at death, bypassing probate for the home specifically. Simple. Limited to the home; other assets still pass through probate.
  • Complete — the full living trust. Revocable Living Trust holds the home and major assets. Includes the funding service: deed retitling, EIN creation, bank trust account paperwork. Probate avoidance for the full estate, not just the home.
  • Both tiers — the Legacy Binder, USB, and notarization. Printed organized binder with PAC-specific dividers. Digital backup on USB. Online notarization through Proof.com. RUFADAA-compliant Digital Asset Authorization.
§ 06 · The Math

Where the price sits.

Four ways families address aging-parent planning. Here is how they compare on price and on what they actually deliver.

— Option A
Wait Until Crisis
$0 now
No documents until a hospital, a facility, or ALTCS forces the issue. The most expensive path on every dimension — financial, emotional, and time.
— Option B
Document Stack Standalone
$2,244
Final Wishes + Medical Directives + Living Trust standalone, purchased separately. No ALTCS pre-planning, no Personal Care Agreement, no family communication tools.
— Option D
AZ Elder-Law Attorney
$4,000–$9,000
Comparable plan with legal advice. Right call for active ALTCS denials, contested family situations, special-needs beneficiaries, or complex estate tax exposure.
— For sandwich-generation buyers

If you own a home and are caring for an aging parent, both plans together.

Common scenario: adult daughter buying the Aging Parents Plan for her mother, and also owns her own home that needs probate protection. Two estates, two plans, one family.

The Homeowner Probate Shield handles your home. The Aging Parents Plan handles your parent. Together, with the Multi-Avatar Discount, both are covered at a reduced rate.

— The combined math (PAC Essentials + HPS)
Aging Parents Plan (Essentials) $1,499
Homeowner Probate Shield (15% off) $1,359
Total: $2,858
PAC Complete + HPS combination: $3,358.
The right time to do this work
is before the crisis names the timeline.
The Operating Principle
§ 07 · Common Questions

Before you decide.

How do we know if we need Essentials or Complete?
The consultation is where we decide. About forty to fifty percent of families legitimately need only Essentials — a single home, simpler estate, ALTCS-imminent timing where trust complexity could complicate eligibility. Complete is right when there are multiple properties, blended families, significant investments, or a desire to keep all assets out of probate, not just the home. We do not upsell to Complete by default. The right answer is the one that fits the family.
What is ALTCS, and why does it matter so much?
ALTCS is Arizona’s long-term care Medicaid program. It pays for nursing facilities, assisted living, in-home care, and memory care — the costs Medicare does not cover after 100 days. To qualify, an applicant’s assets and income must be below specific limits, and the program reviews five years of financial history before approval. The five-year lookback is the reason planning needs to happen years before care is needed. Asset transfers, family payments, even ordinary financial generosity in that window can disqualify the application or trigger penalty periods.
What is the Personal Care Agreement, and do we need it?
If an adult child or family member is providing any care — driving to appointments, helping with bills, daily activities — and receiving any compensation or reimbursement, you need it. Without it, ALTCS treats those payments as gifts during the lookback window, which can disqualify the parent from coverage. With it, the payments are documented compensation for documented work. It is one of the most consequential documents in the package and one of the most commonly missing.
What if Mom gets better and never needs this?
Then she has documents that served as her insurance against decline. Every document in the plan is revocable while she has capacity — she can update or revoke any of them at any time. The Healthcare Directive, the Care Preferences, the Financial POA, the trust if Complete — none of them are activated unless they need to be. If she lives another twenty years and never needs care, the documents are unused. They are not wasted; they are a contingency plan that never had to be triggered.
What if my parent doesn’t have full capacity to sign?
We stop and reassess. I am not authorized to facilitate signing if capacity is compromised, and doing so could invalidate the documents later. If we discover capacity concerns during intake, the honest conversation is about what is still possible. Mild cognitive impairment usually retains capacity for routine documents but reduces it for complex ones. Early Alzheimer’s often retains capacity in early stages, particularly in morning hours — we can schedule signings strategically. If capacity has declined past where signing is reliable, an attorney needs to be involved for court-recognized authority. We refer.
My parent is already in a facility and ALTCS is coming up. Can you help?
Probably not, and we will tell you so honestly. Once ALTCS application is imminent (within six months) or already submitted, you need an elder-law attorney who specializes in active ALTCS work — not a document preparer. Time-sensitive legal advice is required and our scope does not include it. The Aging Parents Plan is pre-planning. If you are past pre-planning, we refer you to an attorney who can do the right work.
My sibling and I disagree about how to handle Mom’s care. Is this still the right plan?
Defer the engagement until you can have the conversation. Documents drafted during active family conflict will likely be challenged later — or worse, signed under pressure and create resentment that lingers for years. The Family Communication Plan and Caregiver Family Meeting Guide are tools for working through these conversations, but they assume good faith. Have the conversation. Reach alignment. Then come back. The work will still be here.
What if my parent has a disabled adult child as a beneficiary?
Stop here. A standard trust distribution to a disabled beneficiary who qualifies (or may qualify) for SSI, Medicaid, or ALTCS will disqualify them from those benefits. You need a Special Needs Trust, which can only be drafted by an attorney. The Aging Parents Plan does not include a Special Needs Trust. Tell us during the consultation and we will refer you to a trusted Arizona attorney who specializes in this work.
§ 08 · Begin

Two ways to start the conversation.

Whether you are the adult child or the aging parent, the consultation is where we work out which tier fits.

— Path I

The Consultation

Thirty minutes. We work through the parent’s situation, the family configuration, the ALTCS picture, and which tier fits. No pressure, no closing.

Schedule a call
— Path II

The Masterclass

A 45-minute foundation on Arizona estate planning, with a dedicated section on aging parents, ALTCS, and the Personal Care Agreement. Watch on your own time, then decide.

Register & watch